Tag: family

  • Longing for Kashmir

    Upper Neelum

    It was 8 Oct, yesterday. Exactly a year ago, we had left Islamabad for a fantastic trip to Kashmir. From my son to his great-grandparents, there were four generations of my family packed in a 14-seater brand-new Mitsubishi coaster that sailed effortlessly through the scenic mountains of the Northern Areas. The memories of that trip have recently been tantalizing me to plan another trip to the North. As a tribute to the Kashmir trip, my sister-in-law made a melodious montage and I translated my poem, Cooling Vesuvius, into Urdu. I wrote it while having a cup of tea with my wife in a ramshackle dhaba by a road in Muzaffarabad that snaked up to the tomb of St Chinasi.

    تمہارے ساتھ ایک کپ چائے
    مجھے فرینک او ہارا کی مشہور نظم یاد دلا رہی ہے
    ‘‘Having a Coke with You’’
    اکتوبر کی یہ خنک ڈھلتی شام
    دور نارنجی افق پر
    ہمالیہ کے عظیم پہاڑوں کے نقوش ثبت کر رہی ہے
    اور ہم
    تاریکی میں ڈوبتے حسین سائرس بادلوں
    اور ان پر دھیرے دھیرے طلوع ہونے والے  نۓ چاند
    اور شاندار شمالی ستارے کے  نیچے
    اپنی پیالیاں تھامے
    جھلملاتے مظفر آباد سے کوسوں اوپر
    مسحور کھڑے ہیں
    ہمارے چینی مٹی کے برتنوں سے اٹھنے والی بھاپ
    ہماری گرم سانسوں کے سرد دھوئیں میں ضم ہو کر
    خوبصورت خط و خال بنا رہی ہے
    جیسے دور کوئی ہوائی جہاز
    ایک کہنہ مشق مصور کی مانند
    آسمان میں سفید لکیریں کھینچ رہا ہو
    ہمارے ساتھ سے گزرتی، بل کھاتی یہ سڑک
    جو پیر  چناسی کے مزار تک جاتی ہے
    مجھے نیپلز میں واقع
    کوہ ویسوویئس کی چوٹی تک جاتی
    ایک ایسی ہی سڑک کی یاد دلاتی ہے
    وہی ویسوویئس
    جس کے آتش فشاں نے ہزاروں سال پہلے
    بدکردار پومپی کو دفن کر دیا تھا ۔
    شاید تم سوچتی ہو گی
    کہ ہمارا تعلق بھی
    اسی ویسوویئس کی طرح
    دھیرے دھیرے سرد پڑ رہا ہے
    جسے اب اس کے دامن میں واقع
    نیپلز کا پر آ شوب شہر بھی
    کوئی خطرہ نہیں گردانتا
    اگرچہ ماہرین ارضیات اب بھی ویسوویئس کو ‘فعال’ کہتے ہیں۔
    ایک فعال آتش فشاں کیا ہی اچھا ہے
    اگر اس سے کوئی ڈرتا نہیں ، تم سوچتی ہو گی ؟
    مگر میرا خیال ہے
    ویسوویئس بہرحال  ویسوویئس ہے۔
    ٹیررھنین سمندر کے ساکن پانیوں کے ساتھ
    نیپلز کے ساحل پر ایستادہ
    ایک منفرد، دیو مالائی پہاڑ
    جسے اپنی عظمت ثابت کرنے کے لیے
    راکھ اور شعلوں میں بھڑکنے کی ضرورت نہیں ۔
    یا ہو سکتا ہے تم ٹھیک سمجھتی ہو
    ہم شاید واقعی بدل چکے ہیں
    جوشیلے محبت کرنے والوں سے  اچھے دوستوں میں ۔
    اگر یہ سچ  بھی ہے تو اس میں کوئی مضاُقہ  نہیں
    مجھے واقعی یہ زیادہ پسند ہے۔
    کیا تمہیں نہیں ؟

  • The inseparable H’s

    Hashir’s obsession with the kid next door i.e. Hafsa is getting out of hand these days. She is an adorable and intelligent seven year old who happens to visit us frequently. When she doesn’t for a day, you find Hashir raving like this.

    He’s apparently calling “Hafsa”
    The sombre play-mates
    Kids in black
  • A Beautiful Mind

    My aunt is a lovely human being who I find smiling all the time. She graduated in genetic engineering from KU with a first-class-first (gold medal) back in ’80s and was appointed as research officer in DESTO Labs right after. The tragedy of her life was that one of her series of breakthrough researches on cancer was published by her professor under her own name. My phupho was an empowered, independent and vocal woman who didnt know giving up so she decided to fight back. But when she protested, she was harassed and terrorised by her professor’s hooligans. My papa was a well-built martial artist and remembers having broken quite some wrists when they bullied her with knives. But then papa wasn’t always around, and after a continual torture that lasted for around a year and consisted of phupho been catcalled in the streets when she left for work, physically attacked and harassed, she finally shattered like glass one day and only whithered with time. Now she spends most of her time reading, confined in one of the many rooms of my father’s house. When I was young, I remember having rich conversations with her on topics like plants, God, astronomy and of course biology, her favorite. So this time round, as I got a spare day or two from my job, I came over to visit her and had a nice and warm chit chat. She often trailed off like always, spoke of mysterious terminologies all the while letting a beautiful, beautiful smile play on her lips. So I put it all down on paper to keep it safe, forever.

    So phupho, when did you graduate from KU?
    We simply count LITE. It is said that in calendar, there are impacts with different worlds like shaker, anti-aging English world. Salts can favor us regarding this world. They say if you are load conservative, they will only tell you about calendar year. For example, you’re following blade platinum, press, brass or bronze plate which can also peep in your grid planted at your residence. If you are load conservative, reflecting yourself as a symbol, we will count you that you are represented by calendar of brass, bronze or simply paper telling you about either advertisements, sceneries, transparencies and different historical spots. Tourism too tells us about different spots for tours. Then we will tell you symbol is introduced with calendar i.e brass, bronze or paper. Usually on calendar it’s given that this calendar is produced with association of chemicals.

    If you get a choice to live in either Karachi or Rahim Yar Khan, what would you opt for?
    Admirably we would want to live in Karachi. Its a city of lights. Karachi is a city of lights (sparkly eyes). While RYK is z-cap.

    Where did you get your primary schooling from?
    I was first admitted into Presentation Convent School, Rawalpindi. Later the school was converted to Cantonment Public School. Rawalpindi was a source. From there we had previously planned to shift to Karachi. We planned to move to karachi because it was the city of lights. (Sparkly eyes, again)

    How old were you when you moved to Karachi?
    Rawalpindi simply counts how you stepped on this planet. Chemicals are volatile, they favor you, considering us age-less. They always ask us if we have knowledge about calendars, clocks, watches; i can favor you. You must learn about magnetic fields, watches, clocks, calendars, horsepower. For reading calendar, you have to have knowledge about working on barrels. For reading clocks, you have to learn magnetic fields and horsepower.

    Where in Rawalpindi did you live?
    We lived in our own palace; Paramount Palace. At sources there was only Paramount Palace. Later, there were many people who introduced their chips at Rawalpindi.

    Potato chips?
    (Smiling) No, chips of different planets.

    Okay, so how far was Saddar from your place?
    Sorry, i don’t quite remember.

    Do you remember anything about Rawalpindi?
    Any type of research which was related with recent hapenings alongwith need or requirement. We used to open our showrooms. There we used to sit for research and also used to collect our needs and requirements. Later after collecting it, we used to lock our showroom.

    How was Rawalpindi back in 1980s?
    We have not visited Rawalpindi. Once there was a tour, managed by university. In those days, i had viewed Rawalpindi and Islamabad.

    Do you have any memory about the twin cities?
    No i just viewed the city from bus. We visited University of Islamabad, i just recalled.

    Why couldn’t you remember it for the first time? Was that a faint memory?
    University said that tour bus would give you a ride through the city. You could only view the city from the running bus. Later we went to the univeristy. It will entertain you and give you hints for charming a bright future, will also give you hints of enchantments which can grab you if you strike them. It will favor your bright future but you must not forget that we will not tell you about any hymn or prayer or any type of words given by scientists or monks and nuns but tell you about chemicals, dessicate high chemicals which are evaporated due to heat. This heat can grab you, will reflect itself as a disease like heat stroke as that you can simply follow your laboratory research. When you have knowledge about dessication of salts, how can we collect volatiles in laboratory? How can we consume volatiles for research? Someone had expired because her spirit had left her body. Instead you worked on dessication of high salts and absorb yourself as a student.

    Did you watch television?
    In those days, we have memory about channels simply on letters, codes, literature, mining and music. They usually tell us that it looks that each and everything is in our hands but it itself is simply a box, music box.